Talk to wife about shoe fetish

Users browsing this forum: Google [Bot] and 13 guests. By using this site, you agree to the Terms of Use and Privacy Policy. If there is sexual gratification involved with his fetish and he is seeking this gratification with others then its cheating in my book. Your BF's has now become uncontrollable. He always says I wish you knew what it was like to havea fettish. I'm open minded in the bedroom but i have never come across anything as powerful as this before

If it can't handle it, before you go too far move on. If he can follow this rule, than you must get over it and let him get excited by the shoes on you as long as he does you as a result. There should probably be a section to cover this. Lately, she's used her vibrator "down there" to help me reach orgasm.

Similar Threads. We are glad that you are with us!!! So substitution for hetero sex is certainly a consideration for this fetish, probably much more than masturbation. You said: its hard to make love when all I can think about is him thinking about his heels and not me It sounds like YOU have more of a hang-up about it than he does or am I missing something?

If most other things are good it depends on whether you can tolerate this particular behaviour. If there is sexual gratification involved with his fetish and he is seeking this gratification with others then its cheating in my book. He is a sweet man but has a history of depression and really, really wants our relationship to work, to the point that i'm not sure how honest he'd be about how bigger part his fetish is, if he knows that i'm distressed about it. More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness. When a relationship comes to an end, there are many forms of intimacy and companionship that you miss. My thought is that these are old heels from a previous relationship. Remove Advertisements.